I’m going to write this assuming that everyone who reads this is neutral. Quite often relationships have domestic turbulence which is demonstrated in a variety of ways most of which are well known.
One of the less well known are when the female is the abusive partner. What is a guy to do when he’s in a bad relationship and can’t move out for fear of losing his children, but is racially abused every single day, verbally abused and on occasion has to fight off physical abuse? What is a guy to do when a woman’s anger control is so weak that she lashes out with violent shoves or punches or slaps everytime she hears something she doesn’t like or gets angry? Should the guy stand there and take it or should he defend himself with the minimum force necessary to ward off physical harm?
I don’t see why a male should have to take any sort of abuse from any female.